Today, we’re going to talk about relationships.
The idea that “it’s good to have many friends” is a thing of the past. Nowadays, many people choose who to associate with and who not to.
If you’re struggling with relationships or feeling unlucky lately, consider this article as a guide to adjust your distance with people.
- People who are strongly jealous Jealousy stems from complexes. People with unresolved complexes may slander or belittle you to maintain their pride. It’s safer to keep a distance from such disruptive individuals.
- People who always try to one-up you Those who constantly show off how great they are or make you feel inferior, do so to boost their self-esteem at your expense. They don’t consider you a true friend but use you for their own purposes. Being around them won’t deepen the relationship but will only drain you. It’s better to reassess your proximity.
- People who enjoy gossiping Avoid those who like to gossip about others in your presence. Chances are, they might gossip about you in front of others.
- People who excessively exaggerate stories A little exaggeration can be fun, but be wary of those who constantly embellish or tell false stories. Such people never reveal their true selves and interact with you under false pretenses. Even after spending a lot of time together, you won’t truly understand each other. They seek attention rather than engaging in genuine conversation.
- People who habitually say “but” Adults who frequently use phrases like “but,” “because,” or “no” often have issues with self-affirmation. They struggle to accept reality and don’t grow, which can bring down your luck. In terms of communication skills, they are lacking. Spending a lot of time with them might even transfer their habits to you.
In summary, these are the five types of people you should avoid associating with.
In conclusion, relationships are about distance.
If you only notice the bad in someone, it’s a sign you’re too close. Stepping back a bit may help build a better relationship.
Find the right distance with each person in your life.
A wonderful lifestyle is built on comfortable relationships.
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